Church of God, New World Ministries

Will Your Love Wax Cold?

Why did Christ forewarn that during our time, many - even in His Church - will become calloused, hard, unsympathetic? Will you be one who will let your love grow cold? How can you make certain this does not happen to you?

In the Olivet Prophecy, Christ foretold the world-shaking events leading up to His 2nd coming. He showed that worldwide hate would lead to wars, famines, pestilences, and widespread earthquakes!

Then Jesus sounded a fearful warning! “All these are the beginning of sorrows. Then shall they deliver you up to be afflicted, and shall kill you {referring to the terrible end-time persecution, culminating in the Great Tribulation!}; and ye shall be hated of all nations for my name’s sake. And then shall many be offended and shall betray one another, and shall hate one another. And because iniquity shall abound, the love of many shall wax cold” (Matt. 24:8-12).

Have you taken this warning from your very Saviour personally? Have you made an inventory of your life lately to be sure you are not guilty of this charge? Christ also solemnly promised the overcomers: “He that shall endure unto the end, the same shall be saved” (v. 13).

Talking about His 2nd coming, Christ gave another solemn warning in this prophecy: “But and if that evil servant shall say in his heart, My Lord delays his coming: And shall begin to smite his fellowservants and to eat and drink with the drunken: The lord of that servant shall come in a day when he looks not for him, and in an hour that he is not aware of, and shall cut him asunder” (Matt. 24:48-51).

Is it possible for a “servant” of God to get careless and begin smiting his own fellowservants? Whether or not this means that such an “evil servant” would literally smite his fellowservants, or whether it refers to him smiting his fellowservants with his tongue, one of the cruelest kinds of injury, this warning is, nonetheless, very explicit in pointing out the lack of true, deep love which some will exhibit toward their brethren!

The Church at Ephesus made the sad mistake of letting its first spiritual glow faint. And this happened to the very people who heard the inspired messages from the mouth Jesus Christ and His chosen apostles!

Jesus Christ rebuked the Church of Ephesus for only one sin, “Because thou hast left thy first love!” It grieved our Saviour very much to see those early New Testament Christians let their spiritual love for God, for the brethren and for God’s Work diminish! He wanted to see them keep up their first love, and increase it! The same applies to us today!

What did Jesus Christ point out as the solution to this serious problem? “Remember therefore from whence thou art fallen, and repent, and do the first works; or else, I will come unto thee quickly, and will remove thy candlestick out of his place, except thou repent” (Rev. 2:5). This divine counsel points out the real answer to the problem of all those who have left their first love!

Do you remember the love, zeal and warmth toward God, His people and His Work, which you had at the time of your conversion? Repent! Get back to the beginning. Confess your wretched condition to God! Ask Him to mercifully forgive you for letting yourself get into this hardened condition; then pray for divine strength and guidance so that you may become an overcomer, and eventually inherit a place of rulership in the soon coming Kingdom of God!

What are some of the reasons why people become hardened in a cold, unmerciful attitude, totally lacking in compassion?

Today’s widespread lack of “natural affection” is a worldwide, cancerous-like spiritual affliction! And the seeds of this lack of love and compassion often take root early in our lives!

We are living in perilous times, the latter days foretold by the apostle Paul: “This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their own selves without natural affection…” (II Tim. 3:1-3). This prophecy clearly reveals that in our time men would be self-lovers. But they would be woefully lacking in the natural affection which a normal person should possess toward his fellowman.

They would have extreme hostility toward their neighbors, instead of loving their neighbors as themselves.

Paul also showed that this world’s leaders, both religious and secular, do not like to retain God in their knowledge (Rom. 1:28)! This is certainly true of most of today’s churches, colleges and other man-made institutions of learning! Man’s religious organizations and his secular institutions of higher learning are primarily responsible for producing this blighted, bumper crop of hardened minds!

Since this world’s leaders don’t wish to retain God in their knowledge, God had given them over to a “reprobate mind” (a depraved or wicked person).Such minds are destitute of the real truth. “…Being filled with all unrighteousness, maliciousness, murder, malignity, despiteful, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful” (Rom. 1:29, 31). Such hate filled minds often display open hostility, not only toward their fellowmen, but also toward their very Creator (Rom. 8:7).

The seeds of ruthlessness are planted early in life! In today’s topsy-turvy world, little tots are brought up playing with “killer toys.” They figuratively “mow down “their own brothers, sisters, playmates.

Today’s children are often not shown the right type, or the right amount of real love and affection by their parents and other members of the family. Such children, reared in this dog-eat-dog world of ours, soon conclude that, if they are to survive, they will have to look out for number one.

But this isn’t all! Modern children from infancy on up, are subjected to a continual, insidious barrage of horror and violence via television, the cinema and other forms of mass entertainment. Such little children (potential sons of God) are also the victims of their nation’s propaganda, which conditions their little pliable minds to hate the supposed enemies of their country, the Germans, Japanese, Russians, Chinese, Jews, and Arabs.

Christ foretold that these days immediately preceding His return to this earth in supernatural splendor would parallel the days of Noah, and in Noah’s day, “the earth was filled with violence” (Gen. 6:11).

But never before in mankind’s 6,000 year history has he been subjected to such unprecedented hate and violence: hot and cold wars, race riots, family brawls, rapes, muggings, and other types of bodily assaults, not to mention the “enjoyment” of ready-made violence through our entertainment system.

In this heartless world, human beings often have more concern for their pets than they have for their fellow human beings.

The 40 million human beings (including over 6,000,000 Jews) killed during the terrible carnage of World War II offer mute testimony of this world’s cold, cruel, heartlessness!

You and I, members of God’s Church, grew up in this harsh, competitive world. Whether we realize it or not, we have imbibed all too freely of this world’s ideas and attitudes. Without realizing it, we have become tainted with this worldwide lack of natural compassion! But, are we doomed to remain shackled with this world’s dog-eat-dog attitude of mind? Certainly not!

God has solemnly promised: “For sin shall not have dominion over you: for ye are not under the (death penalty of the) law, but under grace (pardon)” Rom. 6:14). Our Great God has bound Himself to provide a means of deliverance from every temptation we will ever face: “God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able: but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that you may be able to bear it” (I Cor. 10:13).

There are three vital steps we must take if we want to overcome a hard-hearted attitude.

First, we need to recognize the fact that many in God’s Church are sadly lacking in natural affection! This is the first step in overcoming this spiritual disease.

Next, we must admit our lack, confess it to God, and ask our loving Father to help us overcome this universal lack of compassion for others.

Then, we must do our part to overcome this character weakness, by drinking in of the mind and character of God through prayer and diligent Bible study. We can learn how to overcome this lack of natural affection by carefully studying God’s Word to see how the great men of the Bible (Christ, David, Joseph) thought and acted, how they exhibited great love and compassion toward others. And we can see how these men of God showed real godly affection. By diligently studying, and carefully following, their examples, we can and will overcome this universal spiritual affliction, this gaping lack of natural compassion!

Jesus Christ’s earthly life was a perfect, shining example revealing His deep love, mercy and compassion for all men. He continually taught men to have a forgiving, merciful attitude toward their fellowmen. “Blessed are the merciful: for they shall obtain mercy” (Matt. 5:7).

God hates cruelty (Prov. 11:17; 12:10)! God disinherited two of Jacob’s sons (Gen. 49:5-7) because of their cruelty in slaying all the men of the certain town, when only one man was guilty (Gen. 34:25).

The person who is unmerciful toward others will be judged harshly by God! “For he (the unmerciful person) shall have judgment without mercy, that hath shewed no mercy” (James 2:13).

Jesus not only taught mercy and compassion; He also practiced it! And His ultimate, supreme sacrifice upon the stake was the final capstone, proving His boundless love and compassion for all humanity!

Notice carefully the following examples of the deep compassion which Christ felt for ordinary, erring people.

On one occasion, Christ noticed the milling throng, and was deeply touched at the thought of their spiritual wretchedness. “But when he saw the multitudes, He was moved with compassion on them, because they fainted, and were scattered abroad, as sheep having no shepherd” (Matt. 9:36). Christ then told His disciples that they should pray that God would send more labourers into the harvest (vs. 37-38).

On another occasion, “Christ went forth, and saw a great multitude, and was moved with compassion toward them, and He healed their sick” (Matt. 14:145).

Jesus Christ performed His miracle of multiplying the loaves and fishes, because of His deep feeling for the people: “I have compassion on the multitude” (Matt. 15:32). Two blind men, sitting by the roadside near Jericho, cried out to Christ: “Have mercy on us, O Lord, thou son of David” (Matt. 20:30). Jesus Christ never turned a deaf ear to any cry for mercy or help. “So Jesus had compassion on them, and touched their eyes: and immediately their eyes received sight, and they followed Him” (v. 34).

David, of all men mentioned in the Bible, was spoken of as being a man after God’s own heart (I Sam. 13:14). Does God have human-like emotions? Yes, the Bible reveals God has emotions - love, hate, sorrow – very similar to those possessed by a balanced, emotionally well adjusted person.

David was a robust, whole-hearted, likeable person. He made a number of serious mistakes; but when these sins were pointed out to him, he bitterly repented. (See II Sam. 12:13; Ps. 51). He learned the real meaning of mercy! David cried out to God: “Have mercy upon me, O God, blot out my transgressions. Wash me thoroughly, cleanse me from my sin. For I acknowledge my transgressions. Against thee, thee only, have I sinned, and done this evil. Purge me with hyssop wash me, and I shall be whiter than sow” (Ps. 51:1-10). David really repented of his adultery, and subsequent murder!

What kind of man was David? He was a man of considerable emotion, and he possessed a lot of natural affection. On many occasions during his life, David showed his loyalty to God and to King Saul, by repeatedly refusing to take Saul’s life! But Saul’s envy and cruelty drove him to seek David’s destruction!

David was a man who had a tremendous capacity for compassion. Many of the Psalms David wrote are filled with deep emotion. They reveal the mind of a merciful, compassionate person! David could never praise God enough for the limitless mercy and compassion which God had personally granted him.

Can you now see the importance of learning to express more compassion, especially in this age when there is so little natural affection in the world? If we don’t naturally have sympathy and compassion for people, then God will give it to us, if we ask Him for it in faith! (Matt. 21:22).

We must learn to be soft-hearted. But this does not mean we should be soft-headed! Two of Jesus’ disciples, James and John, seem to have been rather uncompassionate, hard-boiled men by nature. Christ “surnamed them Boanerges, which is, the sons of thunder’” (Mark 3:17).

Their hell-fire-and-damnation approach to life is revealed in an incident as recorded in Luke 9:51-56. On this occasion, the Gentile Samaritans would not receive Jesus and His disciples. This angered James and John, the Sons of Thunder! “And when James and John saw this, they said, Lord, wilt thou that we command fire to come down from heaven and consume them, even as Elias did” (Luke 9:54)? They were ready to teach these Samaritans a lesson or two!

“But He turned, and rebuked them, and said, Ye know not what manner of Spirit ye are of. For the Son of man is not come to destroy men’s lives, but to save them” (vs. 55-56).

A careful study of the epistles of the apostle John will lead you to the conclusion that he later became filled with much more love and compassion, after he was filled with the Holy Spirit at Pentecost. His epistles reveal a great deal of love. So, we see that it is possible for God’s Holy Spirit to give His children added love and compassion.

In this competitive, cut-throat world in which we live, there is very little compassion, mercy or even natural affection. But, even though we may not have been born with a lot of natural affection, we can receive God’s supernatural love, mercy and compassion after we repent, are baptized and receive His precious Holy Spirit. This is the vital “power from on high” (Luke 24:49; Acts 1:8) which changed a cowardly, cringing Peter into a man of boldness (Matt. 26:69-75; Acts 2:14-40).

Some members of the very Body of Christ let themselves get upset because of something which one of the brethren says or does (or supposedly says or does)! Instead of ignoring, overlooking and forgiving the insult such people develop a hard, unmerciful attitude.

We are commanded: “Looking diligently lest any man fail of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and thereby many be defiled” (Heb. 12:15). We need to be very careful not to let hate fill our hearts. Don’t ever let your love and compassion grown cold! We must learn to follow Christ’s example: “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do!”

For this reason we are commanded: “Put on therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering: Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any have a quarrel against another even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye. And, above all these things, put on charity, which is the bond of perfectness” (Col. 3:12-14).

How do you react to the suffering of others? Have you become so calloused or hardened toward suffering that you no longer feel any real sympathy toward those who suffer deprivation or physical pain? We must all be aware lest we become so hardened in sin that we let our love grow cold, and lose our first glow of love, warmth and spiritual zeal! We are commanded not to even so much as rejoice when our enemy stumbles or falls (Prov. 24:17).

One of the best ways to learn compassion is to develop the habit of putting yourself in the place of the other person who may be suffering deprivation, embarrassment, shame, or physical pain. Don’t judge too quickly, and don’t even condemn! You can’t always know the motives behind a person’s actions.

We are commanded: “Speak not evil of one another, brethren” (James 4:11). How can we make sure that our love doesn’t grow cold? How can we learn to have more compassion and natural affection for people? Here’s how:

  1. Realize that we are lacking affection.
  2. Confess our lack to God, and ask Him for His love, mercy and compassion to help us overcome our lack.
  3. Diligently search the Scriptures so we can note and follow the examples of the holy men of God, men who did have a lot of natural affection, men who did show a lot of compassion toward their fellowmen.

Through God’s help we can overcome any lack of natural affection! With His help, we can learn to have more compassion for people! We can really overcome our character weaknesses! And if we keep close to God in study, prayer and fasting, we will overcome!

You have seen Christ’s warning, that “the love of many shall wax cold!” You now know what God requires of you. It is up to you, with the help of God, to overcome any lack of natural affection, any lack of compassion which you have developed through the years! Your love will not grow cold, if you willingly let God’s Spirit mould within you God’s very character, His love, and compassion! Will you let your love wax cold?

Want to know more?
  1. Enroll in our correspondence course Request the FREE correspondence by clicking here
  2. Sign up for our monthly DVD Sermon program Request the FREE monthly sermon DVD's by clicking here
  3. Subscribe to our mailing list Request to be added to the mailing list by clicking here
They are all free, there are NO strings attached and we DO NOT solicit for money.
  Web Site Artwork Credits
© 2020 Church of God, New World Ministries
P.O. Box 5536 Sevierville, TN 37864       (865) 774-8485